When it comes to extreme jealousy over her boyfriend, Gino, Jasmine from 90 Days fiancé: Before 90 Days there are definitely regrets. Jasmine opened up about the source of her "out of control" behavior in an interview with ET's Melicia Johnson about the current season of the hit TLC reality show.
Gino, 51, flew from Michigan to Panama to meet Jasmine, 34, after nine months of online communication. Gino refers to Jasmine as his "love of his life", intends to marry her and start a family with her, but he is wary of her jealousy. Jasmine, who previously revealed that she had been cheated on and this affected her behavior, would be furious when Gino tipped off only a waitress and blasted her for being respectful to his ex-wife. .
Jasmine told ET that it is difficult for her to look back on the footage and that she "absolutely" regrets her actions.
"I judge myself on my actions because I sometimes got out of control for some of the things I did on the show, and that helps me to self-reflect on myself," she says.
Jasmine explained that his jealousy stemmed from a sense of insecurity, which caused him to see every woman as a potential threat to his relationship. However, she claims that she has matured as a person and believes that her actions were unfair.
"I think it's okay to express yourself; what's dangerous not to express yourself, you know?" But maybe my approach, the way I expressed those feelings, wasn't the best because I was getting too emotional, and it has nothing to do with Gino, but everything to do with me," she says. "You know, I was the issue. I was coming out of a very difficult relationship that involved me getting divorced, I had two kids, I was extremely vulnerable, and I was very emotional. Then, for so long After being in a romantic relationship without a man, it was difficult for me to adjust to anyone and express my feelings in the most effective way. I look in the mirror and think to myself, "Whoa." It's late, but all I can say is that I'm still in progress."
"I'm a very sweet, nice person in real life," she insists. "I couldn't believe what I just said." I can't believe I turned down Gino's offer of a tip. "I'm looking at that girl and I can't believe it's me," she says.
Jasmine has been criticized by fans of 90 Day Fiancé, but she is not the only one in the relationship who has been punished. Gino was rumored to have been in a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship before, but he denied it.
"We all have a past," she says, true or not. "Even I can't pass judgment on Gino for his past relationships." I believe that, so far, he has shown me that he is a good person and that he is very interested in me, as the show shows. After all, this man hasn't run away from me, despite my madness and wildness."
“Even if he did,” she adds, “I don’t see a sick man like a pervert abusing women or anything like that.” "If he did, it was out of boredom and desire to mate." And I know that before he lost his job in the United States, he was a very busy man who always worked, and probably didn't have time to go out and meet girls and trust this website. I don't know for sure, but I believe Gino is a good man who would never treat a woman with disrespect."
However, she made a reference to Gino betraying her trust with an ex, which will be revealed later this season.
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"The way I was given this information was very sad for me," she says. "It was a shocking experience." I wasn't expecting it, especially since I was telling myself that the subject of my ex-girlfriend was just on my mind. Everything was just a figment of my imagination. And, as it turned out, I wasn't completely wrong. He was here communicating with his ex, which confirmed my suspicions. It is more than a source of anger for me; This is a source of frustration for me. And I hope no one ever has to do anything like this; It's like a breach of privacy, especially when it comes from someone you care about."
Jasmine insists that she finds Gino attractive and that his "cool" demeanor is beneficial to her. She also rejected the idea that she was using him for a green card or money, claiming that her job as a literature teacher had already provided her with a "comfortable" lifestyle in Panama. .
"First and foremost, I like him physically," she explains. "I think he's a very attractive man, and I like his physical features." I have never been attracted to men who are younger than me, and this has been true in all my relationships. I've always liked dating guys who are at least five to ten years my senior, and Gino is 17 years my senior, so he's physically appealing to me. He is an intelligent and experienced person. He is the polar opposite to me. He is a very composed person. The process is something he enjoys doing. He doesn't get overly emotional in the heat of the moment, and he helped me drain my energy because he's so calm and sweet, a very sweet and gentle person. These were difficult qualities in a man today, in my opinion."
"I'm not going to date someone for their money unless they're filthy rich," she adds. "You know, you have a lot of money like a millionaire!" If there's no love involved, I'm going to find a guy who's super, super rich, rather than Gino, who likes more than average. So these are some common misconceptions, and I always find them amusing. Come on, just give me a break."
Gino's fears about taking off his hat are later addressed by Jasmine. Gino insists on wearing his hat to bed on his first night with Jasmine, and even when he asks her to do so, he refuses to remove it. According to Jasmine, Gino looks great without his hat and resembles Bruce Willis.
"There's nothing wrong with his head in my opinion," she says. "I think he looks better without the hat." His looks are very attractive in my opinion. So it's not about her looks; He's still charming, with or without the hat. It's about how he feels about it. He had mentioned this in the show as well. He feels naked, he doesn't feel comfortable in this new version of himself without hair, and only time will tell if he'll eventually feel comfortable being outside without a hat.